20 questions, anyone?
Time for a new leg in the blogging journey. And I'm taking a queue from dParrish. Ok, really, let's be honest - I'm biting his shyt. Thanks D ;-)
So, kind readers - first, thanks for reading for the last ...wow...nearly 5 years?!!! I had no idea it's been that long, and I know some of you have been reading for a while. I appreciate all the comments, and that some of you have stuck with me through some interesting and trying times. But it's time for a change. And my 40th birthday is the perfect time to do it! The present I want from you is relatively simple, and practically free - feedback!
aside:: if you really just have to buy me something , then by all means: have at the wist list!
I've been randomly posting whateva bubbles floated to the surface of my mind since I started blogging, and I've never asked you really what you wanted. And at times, it's felt like I was (publicly) mentally mas.turbating. So, tell me what do you want? What (if anything) should I write about? What would you like to see more of? What tired subject would you like me to finally leave da hell alone? Enough of my medical problems? Too much detail about the boring-ness that is my lovelife? Want to hear more about my baby-daddy drama? (lawd, I hope not!) Do my lengthy rambling rants on globalization and market capitalism get under your nerves? Then by all means - let me know.
I can't guarantee I'll flip completely just to accomodate everyone's comments - I know I can't please everybody. But my challenge going forward is to write for the audience (y'all), while still retaining the truth that is my voice. We'll see together.
email: lylucas[AT]gmail.com replace the [AT] before you send, please!
YIM: saga_30311
And if you need inspiration, I'll start. The questions listed below are ones that I've been asked online/offline about my blog, and the stuff I write, that I've never answered publicly. I promise to answer all questions (including my own) in a subsequent post. (anonymous commenters/emailers will be kept anonymous).
My questions:
- Why do you put it all out there? Doesn't telling everything bother you?
- How much of what you post is true? How much is contrived to get attention?
- What's with the $5K words? Can't u just tell it str8, w/out the fancy language?
- Is the thing with JC finally over?
- And what's the d.ot thing about?
- And why do you hate C.urves Salon so much? I got my hair done there the other day, and it came out beootiful...
..ok, that last one I should probably just email to the commenter, since no one else really cares (including me). Enuff already. Holla at me....
Comments
Sis… I find your posts unique, and the style and language is what keeps me coming back for more… I just enjoy reading about everything, especially your take on most subjects, gets me thinking… and to know that as much as I think I am a drama queen, there is a lot more drama going on out there (it keeps me sane)
Keep writing how you really feel and think, I simply enjoy it. You know life begins at 40, so I look forward to reading more about you ‘real’ life.
Keep blogging
Peace
Posted by: Coolbabe | May 23, 2006 02:08 PM
Sis… I find your posts unique, and the style and language is what keeps me coming back for more… I just enjoy reading about everything, especially your take on most subjects, gets me thinking… and to know that as much as I think I am a drama queen, there is a lot more drama going on out there (it keeps me sane)
Keep writing how you really feel and think, I simply enjoy it. You know life begins at 40, so I look forward to reading more about you ‘real’ life.
Keep blogging
Peace
Posted by: Coolbabe | May 23, 2006 02:08 PM
Saga, I wouldn't change a thing about your blog. I particularly like the fancy words and the things that you choose to reveal, because that is part of your unique style. How boring it would be to read blogs that all read the same way.
I must say that I don't always reply, but many times I'm left thinking for a while about topics that you've discussed. But as for suggestions, I think it would be fun for a few of us bloggers to read a book and have some sort of book club discussion on one or all our blogs. For example, I'm reading a book named, "Find A Husband After 35: Using What I Learned At Harvard Business School" by Rachel Greenwald. Many times after reading a book I have my perspective about the book, but I would also like to know what others (married and single) think about the book.
Posted by: Aziza | May 22, 2006 10:30 AM
Girl, write what you want to write, how you want to write it - after all, it is YOUR blog. I personally enjoy the mix at your spot. Keep your flow Sis!
Posted by: Jayy | May 21, 2006 04:10 AM
Girl I think you can just continue to write what you write about mostly because you were you when I stumbled on the blog and that's what's kept me coming back. Happy Big 4-Oh!
Posted by: princessdominique | May 20, 2006 08:26 PM
Saga,
I have always enjoyed your comments both when I as a member of Prolifics and even though I am no longer a member, you have a most beautiful blog. I am making plans to visit Atlanta (Morrow section a friend of mine is staying) and she will take me around to look. also, I have applied to four colleges/universities there for January enrollment if not September. I loved your experiences of Starbucks and your studying. it just reminds me of me and how here in NJ in the negative hood in which i find myself I go down the street to do my artwork or study to get away from the nonsense that surrounds me. I know that your life was not easy and you are a survivor like myself. I will visit your blog more often...when i can..been extremenly busy with school, tying to move, health, my dad being ill and writing poetry projects. So Saga keep up the good work and I will speak with you soon. Enjoy your special day being 40 years young;;;i will be 48 years young on May 29th....blessings and peace...Diamond
Posted by: Diamond(Sharon) | May 20, 2006 04:06 PM