...but I am having a LONG anti-peen moment.
I'm not feeling the peen - or the brothers attached to them. It wasn't one incident that's pushed me over the edge, but their collective behavior as a whole.
what makes a "man" good?:: The glad-handing and congratulating themselves for having a "job, a car, a home and being triple D free, no Drugs, Drama, or Diseases" - as if they deserve an award for that. Ninja please - that's just the entrance fee. That doesn't make you a "good" man!
I'm sure Jeffrey Dahmer had a job, car, home and health insurance! Shyt, John Wayne Gacy was triple-D (at least until he got caught)!
polygyny, thy name is playa:: And all the discussions that accept/promote this idea of "educated, professional black male scarcity". Yes, of course men would buy into that - that fear breeds insecurities and competition for the prize: namely them. And not for anything, but the whole "the reason why a women can't get/keep a good man" latest phenom is working a particular nerve in my booty as well. Social-media approved polygyny isn't any less annoying than self-approving polygyny. In other words: just because you CAN date myriad and sundry chicks at the same time and everyone seems to be cool with it, doesn't make it acceptable behavior.
Peen - the vaginaDryer:: In other words - I'm sick of men. How sick you ask? So sick, in fact - that attractive men are like aspic or lemon juice on the vajayjay: a vagina dryer to say the least. See that attractive group of brothers over there? Oh them? Yes, they're cute - but I'd rather have a new pair of Via Spigas. Or a V-8. Or a pack of double-A's for my BOB.
So sick in fact: that If Alonzo (Training Day Denzel) walked into my house, butt-booky-a$$ nekkid, with a fresh caeser and goatee, and asked me to glaze his mustache, I'd hand him a baker's dozen of hot Krispy Kremes. That, my friends, is a whole new level of jaded and bitter, even for me.
The new Peter Pan:: It's as if there's this new breed of men, that possess incredible self-centeredness. So self-indulgent, in fact, that although they "know" that they're treating the women in their lives badly, they have no knowledge or understanding of the depths of this mistreatment - or the impact. There are levels, my friends - and these brothers have hit behavioral rock-bottom, without understanding it. Their insecurities show themselves as arrogance combined with selfishness, and we count it all self-confidence. Blah!
In their minds, they are so compelling, so awesome, so "together" in all other categories: career, appearance, education, intelligence, creativity, talent, looks or success - that they're 'allowed" to be completely self-indulgent and so narcisstic that it damages anyone that comes into contact with them. They're allowed, because men are scarce, and good men are even scarcer, and we're all "adults", and there are no commitments, so no one should get hurt, right?
These are the brothers that cheat, then blame their woman's lack of sexual expertise for not keeping them at home. These are the brothers who refuse to commit, blaming their harem for not being the "right woman" - when in fact, they never got to know any of the harem on more than a superficial level.
Joysticks:: All these Peter Pans - self-indulgent, refusing to mature and grow-up, Toys-R-Us "good men" are just joysticks. They're good to play with for short periods of time, and they look good inside the box. Hell, if once you break the box open and really put them to work (er, horizontally that is?) - they may even bring a great deal of joy...lol.
...but after a couple of turns at the game, they break or come up short.
They're lacking in moral character, they're lacking in values, they're lacking in all the areas that truly make a man "good". Or even if they're not completely lacking - they rarely spend enough quality time with a woman to show her. Or are secure enough to invest in her.
I know I've thrown in the towel and said I'm done many times here before. The difference, this time, is that I've already got some time in, chilling. And chilling has become more appealing than dating. And that's more than a little scary.
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